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Movies that feel likeHer (2013)

In the not so distant future, Theodore, a lonely writer, purchases a newly developed operating system designed to meet the user's every need. To Theodore's surprise, a romantic relationship develops between him and his operating system. This unconventional love story blends science fiction and romance in a sweet tale that explores the nature of love and the ways that technology isolates and connects us all.

If you loved Her, the closest films we have are God's Own Country (2017), Passengers (2016) and The Wall (2012). All three share Her's contemplative and lonely feel, which is what we rank on before quality.

Seen the big three already? The under-the-radar pick below is Certain Women (2016).

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God's Own Country
2017 · dir. Francis Lee
🍅 97%★ 7.6romance · drama

An isolated soul thawed by an unexpected, unlikely connection

The difference: Mud-and-cold physical realism — nothing speculative about it

A young farmer in rural Yorkshire numbs his daily frustrations with binge drinking and casual sex, until the arrival of a Romanian migrant worker.

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Passengers
2016 · dir. Morten Tyldum
🍅 30%★ 7drama · romance · science fiction

Loneliness heavy enough to make an impossible bond feel reasonable

The difference: Sleek space thriller — glossier, and it wants a happy ending

A spacecraft traveling to a distant colony planet and transporting thousands of people has a malfunction in its sleep chambers. As a result, two passengers are awakened 90 years early.

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The Wall
2012 · dir. Julian Pölsler
🍅 76%★ 6.7science fiction · dramaPrime Video

Total solitude as a lens on what a person actually needs

The difference: One woman and a dog — austere survival, no romance at all

A woman inexplicably finds herself cut off from all human contact when an invisible, unyielding wall suddenly surrounds the countryside. Accompanied by her loyal dog Lynx, she becomes immersed in a world untouched by civilization and ruled by the laws of nature.

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Julieta
2016 · dir. Pedro Almodóvar
🍅 84%★ 7.1drama · romance

Loneliness and love examined across a life quietly falling apart

The difference: Almodóvar's grief drama — no sci-fi frame, heavier sorrow

The film spans 30 years in Julieta’s life from a nostalgic 1985 where everything seems hopeful, to 2015 where her life appears to be beyond repair and she is on the verge of madness.

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Scenes from a Marriage
1974 · dir. Ingmar Bergman
★ 8.3drama · romanceMax

The same preoccupation in both: loneliness

The difference: Easier on the ideas than Her

Johan and Marianne are married and seem to have it all. Their happiness, however, is a façade for a troubled relationship, which becomes even rockier when Johan admits that he's having an affair. Before long, the spouses separate and move towards finalizing their divorce, but they make attempts at reconciling. Even as they pursue other relationships, Johan and Marianne realize that they have a significant bond, but also many issues that hinder that connection.

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The Vow
2012 · dir. Michael Sucsy
🍅 30%★ 6.8drama · romanceStarz

The ache of loving someone who can't stay who they were

The difference: Conventional weepie with none of the strange, wry humor

Happy young married couple Paige and Leo are, well, happy. Then a car accident puts Paige into a life-threatening coma. Upon awakening she has lost the previous five years of memories, including those of her beloved Leo, her wedding, a confusing relationship with her parents, or the ending of her relationship with her ex-fiance. Despite these complications, Leo endeavors to win her heart again and rebuild their marriage.

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Everything, Everything
2017 · dir. Stella Meghie
🍅 45%★ 6.3drama · romance

Love reaching a person sealed off from the ordinary world

The difference: YA sweetness — its ideas about isolation stay skin-deep

A teenager who's lived a sheltered life because she's allergic to everything, falls for the boy who moves in next door.

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My Blueberry Nights
2007 · dir. Wong Kar-Wai
🍅 45%★ 6.6drama · romancePrime VideoStarz

Heartbreak nursed slowly, with strangers as the cure

The difference: A drifting road movie — mood outweighs story at every stop

Elizabeth has just been through a particularly nasty breakup, and now she's ready to leave her friends and memories behind as she chases her dreams across the country. In order to support herself on her journey, Elizabeth picks up a series of waitress jobs along the way. As Elizabeth crosses paths with a series of lost souls whose yearnings are even greater than her own, their emotional turmoil ultimately helps her gain a greater understanding of her own problems...

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The Space Between Us
2017 · dir. Peter Chelsom
🍅 17%★ 6.4romance · science fiction · dramaPrime VideoHulu

One thread runs through both: the future

The difference: The scrappier of the two with critics

A young man raised by scientists on Mars returns to Earth to find his father.

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Marty
1955 · dir. Delbert Mann
🍅 96%★ 7.7drama · romancePrime Video

Both keep coming back to the same thing: love

The difference: 58 years apart, and the 1950s show

Marty, a butcher who lives in the Bronx with his mother, is unmarried at 34. Good-natured but socially awkward, he faces constant badgering from family and friends to get married but has reluctantly resigned himself to bachelorhood. He then meets Clara, an unattractive school teacher. Realising their emotional connection, Marty promises to call, but family and friends try to convince him not to.

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Certain Women
2016 · dir. Kelly Reichardt
🍅 92%★ 6.4dramaParamount+

Quiet lives aching for connection across wide empty spaces

The difference: Nearly plotless Reichardt vignettes — even the yearning is muted

Three strong-willed women strive to forge their own paths amidst the wide-open plains of the American Northwest: a lawyer forced to subdue a troubled client; a wife and mother whose plans to construct her dream home reveal fissures in her marriage; and a lonely ranch hand who forms an ambiguous bond with a young law student.

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Ex Machina
2015 · dir. Alex Garland
🍅 92%★ 7.7drama · science fictionHulu

An AI relationship that asks what feeling really proves

The difference: Cold and predatory — intimacy is a test, not a comfort

Caleb, a coder at the world's largest internet company, wins a competition to spend a week at a private mountain retreat belonging to Nathan, the reclusive CEO of the company. But when Caleb arrives at the remote location he finds that he will have to participate in a strange and fascinating experiment in which he must interact with the world's first true artificial intelligence, housed in the body of a beautiful robot girl.

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