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Movies that feel likeHarold and Maude (1971)

A deadpan young man obsessed with death meets an eccentric septuagenarian who teaches him to live life to the fullest.

If you loved Harold and Maude, the closest films we have are The Apartment (1960), Lolita (1962) and The Girl on the Bridge (1999). All three share Harold and Maude's witty and playful feel, which is what we rank on before quality.

Seen the big three already? The under-the-radar pick below is Two for the Road (1967).

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If Harold and Maude hit the spot, these will too

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The Apartment
1960 · dir. Billy Wilder
🍅 94%★ 8.3comedy · drama · romance

Two things both keep coming back to: age difference and suicide attempt

Bud Baxter is a minor clerk in a huge New York insurance company, until he discovers a quick way to climb the corporate ladder. He lends out his apartment to the executives as a place to take their mistresses. Although he often has to deal with the aftermath of their visits, one night he's left with a major problem to solve.

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Lolita
1962 · dir. Stanley Kubrick
🍅 89%★ 7.5drama · comedy · romance

Both are built on the same subject: depression

Humbert Humbert is a middle-aged British novelist who is both appalled by and attracted to the vulgarity of American culture. When he comes to stay at the boarding house run by Charlotte Haze, he soon becomes obsessed with Lolita, the woman's teenaged daughter.

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The Girl on the Bridge
1999 · dir. Patrice Leconte
🍅 88%★ 7.4drama · comedy · romance

One thread runs through both: suicide

The difference: 28 years apart, and the 1990s show

It's night on a Paris bridge. A girl leans over Seine River with tears in her eyes and a violent yearning to drown her sorrows. Out of nowhere someone takes an interest in her. He is Gabor, a knife thrower who needs a human target for his show. The girl, Adele, has never been lucky and nowhere else to go. So she follows him. They travel along the northern bank of the Mediterranean to perform.

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Meet John Doe
1941 · dir. Frank Capra
🍅 92%★ 7.6drama · comedy · romance

The same mix in both: wit, then play

As a parting shot, fired reporter Ann Mitchell prints a fake letter from unemployed "John Doe," who threatens suicide in protest of social ills. The paper is forced to rehire Ann and hires John Willoughby to impersonate "Doe." Ann and her bosses cynically milk the story for all it's worth, until the made-up "John Doe" philosophy starts a whole political movement.

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The Hustler
1961 · dir. Robert Rossen
🍅 94%★ 7.9drama · romance

Both keep coming back to the same thing: suicide

The difference: Takes it somewhere less witty than Harold and Maude does

Fast Eddie Felson is a small-time pool hustler with a lot of talent but a self-destructive attitude. His bravado causes him to challenge the legendary Minnesota Fats to a high-stakes match.

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Secretary
2002 · dir. Steven Shainberg
🍅 78%★ 6.8romance · drama · comedyPrime Video

Contemplative where it counts, romantic underneath

A young woman, recently released from a mental hospital, gets a job as a secretary to a demanding lawyer, where their employer-employee relationship turns into a sexual, sadomasochistic one.

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Sleepless in Seattle
1993 · dir. Nora Ephron
🍅 75%★ 6.8comedy · drama · romanceNetflix

Tender and melancholy in the same breath

After the death of his mother, a young boy calls a radio station in an attempt to set his father up on a date. Across the country, an engaged woman becomes convinced that they belong together, despite their never having met. Will their paths collide despite the odds?

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Love Is All You Need
2012 · dir. Susanne Bier
🍅 75%★ 6.5comedy · romance · dramaRent or buy

Witty comedy, and it commits to that

Ida, a Danish hairdresser who has lost her hair to cancer, returns home from the hospital one day to find her husband is cheating on her. She decides to travel to Italy on her own for her daughter's wedding, but discovers on arriving that the wedding gathering will present its own challenges.

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City Lights
1931 · dir. Charlie Chaplin
🍅 95%★ 8.5comedy · drama · romancePrime VideoMax

The same preoccupation in both: suicide attempt

A tramp falls in love with a beautiful blind flower girl. His on-and-off friendship with a wealthy man allows him to be the girl's benefactor and suitor.

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La Dolce Vita
1960 · dir. Federico Fellini
🍅 95%★ 8comedy · drama

Common ground: mortality

Episodic journey of journalist Marcello who struggles to find his place in the world, torn between the allure of Rome's elite social scene and the stifling domesticity offered by his girlfriend, all the while searching for a way to become a serious writer.

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Two for the Road
1967 · dir. Stanley Donen
🍅 82%★ 7.3drama · romance · comedy

Drama with a pulse of play, in both cases

Architect Mark Wallace and his wife, Joanna, travel to France to meet with an affluent client. While there, they reflect on their first decade of marriage -- memories of when they first met, of courtship, and of road trips through the French countryside. As flirtation and playful quarreling turn to boredom with the banality of married life, the Wallaces struggle to rekindle their passion, while mutual infidelity threatens to tear them apart.

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Life As We Know It
2010 · dir. Greg Berlanti
🍅 29%★ 6.5comedy · romance · drama

Both lean on stillness more than on romance

The difference: The critics' underdog of the pair

After a disastrous first date for caterer Holly and network sports director Messer, all they have in common is a dislike for each other and their love for their goddaughter Sophie. But when they suddenly become all Sophie has in this world, Holly and Messer must set their differences aside. Juggling careers and social calendars, they'll have to find common ground while living under the same roof.

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