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Movies that feel likeDear John (2010)

While Sergeant John Tyree is home on two weeks leave from Germany, he meets Savannah after he dives into the ocean to retrieve Savannah's purse that had fallen off a pier. John eventually falls in love with Savannah, who promises to write to him until he returns from overseas.

If you loved Dear John, the closest films we have are Battle for Sevastopol (2015), What's Eating Gilbert Grape (1993) and Never Let Me Go (2010). All three share Dear John's contemplative and romantic feel, which is what we rank on before quality.

Seen the big three already? The under-the-radar pick below is Mrs. Miniver (1942).

🍅 28% Rotten Tomatoes★ 6.3 IMDb ↗TMDB ↗dir. Lasse Hallströmcontemplativeromantictenderbleak
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Battle for Sevastopol
2015 · dir. Sergey Mokritsky
★ 7war · drama · romancePrime Video

The same mix in both: stillness, then romance

The story of Lyudmila Pavlichenko, the most successful female sniper in history.

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What's Eating Gilbert Grape
1993 · dir. Lasse Hallström
🍅 90%★ 7.7romance · drama

Both are Lasse Hallström's work, and they rhyme

The difference: Critics rated this one higher still

Gilbert Grape is a small-town young man with a lot of responsibility. Chief among his concerns are his mother, who is so overweight that she can't leave the house, and his mentally impaired younger brother, Arnie, who has a knack for finding trouble. Settled into a job at a grocery store and an ongoing affair with local woman Betty Carver, Gilbert finally has his life shaken up by the free-spirited Becky.

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Never Let Me Go
2010 · dir. Mark Romanek
🍅 71%★ 7.1drama · romance · science fictionPrime Video

Tender where it counts, bleak underneath

The difference: Leans harder into science fiction than Dear John does

As children, Kathy, Ruth, and Tommy spend their childhood at an idyllic and secluded English boarding school. As they grow into adults, they must come to terms with the complexity and strength of their love for one another while also preparing for the haunting reality awaiting them.

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Allied
2016 · dir. Robert Zemeckis
🍅 60%★ 7.1action · drama · warParamount+

One thread runs through both: love

The difference: Sits closer to action than Dear John does

In 1942, an intelligence officer in North Africa encounters a female French Resistance fighter on a deadly mission behind enemy lines. When they reunite in London, their relationship is tested by the pressures of war.

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One Day
2011 · dir. Lone Scherfig
🍅 36%★ 7drama · romance

Both are built on the same subject: love

The difference: Easier on the bleakness than Dear John

After spending the night together on the eve of their college graduation, Dexter and Emma are shown each year on the same date to see where they are in their lives. They are sometimes together, and sometimes not.

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Mrs. Miniver
1942 · dir. William Wyler
🍅 93%★ 7.6drama · romance · war

Contemplative drama in both cases

The difference: Made in the 1940s, in a different era of the craft

Middle-class housewife Kay Miniver deals with petty problems. She and her husband Clem watch her Oxford-educated son Vin court Carol Beldon, the charming granddaughter of the local nobility as represented by Lady Beldon. Then the war comes and Vin joins the RAF.

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Pearl Harbor
2001 · dir. Michael Bay
🍅 24%★ 6.3drama · warNetflix

Both keep coming back to the same thing: army

The lifelong friendship between Rafe McCawley and Danny Walker is put to the ultimate test when the two ace fighter pilots become entangled in a love triangle with beautiful Naval nurse Evelyn Johnson. But the rivalry between the friends-turned-foes is immediately put on hold when they find themselves at the center of Japan's devastating attack on Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7, 1941.

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Eat Pray Love
2010 · dir. Ryan Murphy
🍅 34%★ 5.9drama · romanceNetflix

Both lean on romance more than on romance

A married woman realizes how unhappy her marriage really is, and that her life needs to go in a different direction. After a painful divorce, she takes off on a round-the-world journey to "find herself".

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From Here to Eternity
1953 · dir. Fred Zinnemann
🍅 88%★ 7.6war · romance · dramaPrime Video

War with a pulse of tenderness, in both cases

In 1941 Hawaii, a private is cruelly punished for not boxing on his unit's team, while his captain's wife and second in command are falling in love.

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The Longest Ride
2015 · dir. George Tillman Jr.
🍅 31%★ 7drama · romance

Contemplative drama, and it commits to that

The lives of a young couple intertwine with a much older man as he reflects back on a lost love while he's trapped in an automobile crash.

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The English Patient
1996 · dir. Anthony Minghella
🍅 86%★ 7.4drama · romance · warParamount+

Romance built on bleakness, twice over

In the 1930s, Count Almásy is a Hungarian map maker employed by the Royal Geographical Society to chart the vast expanses of the Sahara Desert along with several other prominent explorers. As World War II unfolds, Almásy enters into a world of love, betrayal, and politics.

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Legends of the Fall
1994 · dir. Edward Zwick
★ 7.5drama · western · romance

Romantic war in both cases

In early 20th-century Montana, Col. William Ludlow lives on a ranch in the wilderness with his sons, Alfred, Tristan, and Samuel. Eventually, the unconventional but close-knit family are bound by loyalty, tested by war, and torn apart by love, as told over the course of several decades in this epic saga.

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